Remember On Second Thought

second thought “There are no coincidences!” I just returned from Canada where I met with some incredible people. More on that in another post. On my way back which is another epic story of getting back, I received an email from a client who told me of an incident that I think happened because he didn’t follow my advice. My first instinct was to call him out on it but then I remembered a recent lesson: “Don’t make another person out to be wrong!” Actions may not be optimal but the person is perfect.

That makes sense since we are individual manifestations of God and since God cannot be wrong, the essence of each one of us is perfect as well. Reflecting on this I closed my eyes for a short while (I was on a plane) and then I was able to reply from a bit higher energy level or higher on the tone scale which is another topic I will share with you in a future post.

This “on second thought” approach works really well for me and I know it will work well for you also. What that means is that when confronted with a situation in person or online that you don’t prefer, pause before responding. Of course this does not apply if you are physically in danger. Otherwise wait awhile which could mean overnight a couple days or 10 minutes. Very interesting to me that I was thinking about this and that is the exact topic from yesterday’s Science of Mind which is one of the resources I use daily to prevent myself from becoming stuck.

If you feel you are held back by negative emotions I recommend following the getting unstuck program included with this article. All of us are free to choose how we think and use our energy. I choose to move in the direction of the goals I set and not get stuck in a life of quiet desperation which comes from Emerson. I also help others who I coach. Helping others is always the best feeling for me. I hope this helps you.

Founder Manifest Mastermind, International Business, Real Estate and Life Coach









Speaking of Getting Stuck, I have been publishing my summary action plan with my latest blog posts on getting unstuck….that comes up next (below.) Manifest Mastermind Members are going to get a complete Guidance Process on this topic.  Click here to start your trial subscription for $1.00

For Your Convenience The Following Is A Getting Unstuck Summary Action Plan

Action Steps for Getting Your Internal Guidance System Unblocked or How To Remove Fear and Other Negative Emotions That Are Blocking Your Progress ( The  biggest benefits to having a coach is guidance on action steps that make a huge difference and accountability for getting them done.  I have 5 openings. If you are interested in more information email me or call me at 727-587-7871.)

1.       Register for the Free Course at Manifest Mastermind and become a member if it is in your budget.

2.       Buy a high quality journal that is leather bound and has high quality paper.

3.       Buy the Daily Word and Science of Mind (Google them)

4.       Buy the Yes Attitude by Jeffrey Gittomer (Amazon)

5.       Have your own resources that will help you. The classic Think and Grow Rich is fantastic as well as all the books by Catherine Ponder, Jerry and Esther Hicks,  Neil Donald Walsch, Wayne Dyer, Randy Gage and more like them.

6.       Commit to a minimum of 15 minutes each day and ideally 30 -60 minutes reading the Daily Word, Science of Mind and Yes Attitude ( at some point you will finish the Yes Attitude and then replace it . Spend additional time with a book like Think and Grow Rich

7.       Write in your journal the most compelling guidance from any of these resources that you want to focus on and have make a difference in your life. Now you can see why I advise invest in a journal. This is where very valuable thoughts and ideas go.  There are many ways you can use a journal. At a minimum do what I am suggesting. 

8.       Carry the journal with you when possible or note cards from your journal and then when you catch yourself doing or saying something that represents a behavior you are intending to change refer to your journal for guidance. If you are journaling that you are going to take some forward moving action steps each day, write it visualize it as done and take action.

9.       This all takes a commitment, persistence and practice. However you do want to become unstuck don’t you?

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Steve Pohlit

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