Turning Anger Into Laughter

Founder Manifest Mastermind, International Business, Real Estate and Life Coach

At an outdoor venue with a band playing that my daughter really liked we were looking for a place to sit. We sat down at a table that appeared to having nobody sitting at it. Shortly a man came to me very angry and told me to leave as it was his table for him and his friends. I said no problem and said we would as soon as they arrived. He then proceeded to order me to leave right then with some very direct aggressive language. He also physically threatened me if I didn’t listen to him.

In an instant all my non spiritual experiences from the past emerged. In the same instant I recognized this could get real ugly fast. In the same instant I focused on Oneness and a peaceful outcome. I simply said “enjoy your evening” and we left the table. As it turned out there was another empty table directly behind the one the man was protecting. I was concerned about his near violent reaction to a simple situation and spoke with security about it and they were already familiar with this man.

The incident past. Later that evening my daughter wanted to dance and was concerned about us losing the table. I said wait a minute. I walked up to the man who threatened me earlier and said “hey you do such a good job protecting tables, would you protect ours while me and my daughter dance?” He laughed and said “of course”. When we came back he was smiling and said he had to chase away at least three people. I think that was in jest be we were able to laugh about it.

I was very happy about how this turned out realizing how close we were to a very negative situation. The difference was making a decision to be at peace and send energy of well being. Wow what a great lesson.

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For Your Convenience The Following Is A Getting Unstuck Summary Action Plan

Action Steps for Getting Your Internal Guidance System Unblocked or How To Remove Fear and Other Negative Emotions That Are Blocking Your Progress ( The  biggest benefits to having a coach is guidance on action steps that make a huge difference and accountability for getting them done.  I have 5 openings. If you are interested in more information email me or call me at 727-587-7871.)

1.       Register for the Free Course at Manifest Mastermind and become a member if it is in your budget.

2.       Buy a high quality journal that is leather bound and has high quality paper.

3.       Buy the Daily Word and Science of Mind (Google them)

4.       Buy the Yes Attitude by Jeffrey Gittomer (Amazon)

5.       Have your own resources that will help you. The classic Think and Grow Rich is fantastic as well as all the books by Catherine Ponder, Jerry and Esther Hicks,  Neil Donald Walsch, Wayne Dyer, Randy Gage and more like them.

6.       Commit to a minimum of 15 minutes each day and ideally 30 -60 minutes reading the Daily Word, Science of Mind and Yes Attitude ( at some point you will finish the Yes Attitude and then replace it . Spend additional time with a book like Think and Grow Rich

7.       Write in your journal the most compelling guidance from any of these resources that you want to focus on and have make a difference in your life. Now you can see why I advise invest in a journal. This is where very valuable thoughts and ideas go.  There are many ways you can use a journal. At a minimum do what I am suggesting. 

8.       Carry the journal with you when possible or note cards from your journal and then when you catch yourself doing or saying something that represents a behavior you are intending to change refer to your journal for guidance. If you are journaling that you are going to take some forward moving action steps each day, write it visualize it as done and take action.

9.       This all takes a commitment, persistence and practice. However you do want to become unstuck don’t you?

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Steve Pohlit

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Steve Pohlit is a CPA,MBA and has been the CFO of several major domestic and international companies. Today Steve is an expert business consultant focused on helping companies improve their business performance including growing profits, revenues and customers. For a FREE 6 week mini course where you will receive 10 easy to implement action steps guaranteed to increase business revenue and profits by at least 30% in the next 90 days, please visit www.StevePohlit.com  All articles published by Steve unless specifically restricted may be freely published with this resource information.
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